Tuesday, December 13, 2011
My fiancee's parents want me to drop out of college. Advice?
May I ask where your parents are? You never talk about your parents but only your fiancee's parents. Your financee's parents are jerks; they only care about their son but not you. Have you discussed your problems with your professor? You will be surprisved that your professor might be able to work out a special plan for you. Although your financee's parents are jerks, it's not wise to make them too upset, especially if you are planning to marry this guy and especially if your financee is far away from you now. Your never know what these 2 old people say behind your back. The reason I mention your parents because it's sometimes important to show your financee's parents that you also have family and friends to support you, and that your financee's parents will thus respect and treat you better. It'll be very "dangerous" if your financee and his parents know that you are alone by youself without supports from outsiders. My suggestion is to discuss your problem with your professor. Even if your professor cannot work out an alternative for your, your professor will have a great impression on you for being a very serious student who cares a lot of about future. You'll need a recommendation letter when you apply for good college or scholarships :) Try to bit a discounted air fares on priceline, or go to www.sta.com that provides student discounted fares. After arriving at the airport, you can look for a door-to-door shuttle bus that can take you where you need to go. Every airport has it, and it usually costs 20 or 30 dollars. Or I am sure that your financee will have friends in the boot camp whose families will also attend the ceremony and be able to give you a ride. Or, you can fly to the ceremony and ride with your financee's parents. Usually at the end of the course the professor only reviews the exam materials and will not teach new things. You can ask your professor to see if you can take the exam earlier. I am not sure which cl you are taking, but usually the exam materials are from the books. So long as you read your book carefully, you will be fine with your exam even if you miss several cles. But again, discuss this problem with your professor first. I can't tell you what to do, but try to give yourself more options than either fly or ride along with your financee's parents to the ceremony. Good luck ;)
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